Muslims are advised to keep the wedding simple and avoid excessive celebrations out of respect for this holy month. Some scholars even consider getting married during Ramadan to be mustahab (recommended) as it brings added blessings. But the wedding should not distract from the spiritual focus of the month.
Islamic Scholar Vision of Marriage During this Holy Month
Dr Zakir Naik an Islamic experts provide helpful advice on how to manage getting married during the special month of Ramadan.
We added a short video of him related to this topic so you can watch:
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Guidance on Intimacy for Newlywed Couples in Ramadan
Islam allows newlyweds couples to be intimate at night during Ramadan after opening their fast. But, they cannot be intimate between their fasting. It is better for newlyweds to focus more on worshipping Allah, reading the Quran, and doing good deeds together rather than too much intimacy during this holy month.
Ramadan teaches self-control, modesty, and devotion. Intimate relations should not distract the couple from the spiritual purpose of this blessed period. If intimacy makes it very difficult to control desires during fasting hours, it may be advisable to pause intimacy to protect the sacred fast temporarily.
Islamic scholars encourage new Couples to control their feelings during fasting:
The message underscores the importance of understanding and practicing these teachings for marital harmony and spiritual growth.
Things to Consider if Getting Married in Ramadan
Getting married during the blessed month of Ramadan requires striking the right balance between celebrating your union and respecting the sanctity of this holy period.
Here are some important things to keep in mind:
- Opt for a simple nikah ceremony, avoiding extravagant celebrations that could distract from the spiritual essence of Ramadan. A humble event at the mosque or home is recommended.
- Plan your wedding so you and your guests can break the fast together at sunset and keep fasting the next day, without missing religious duties.
- Share your happiness by giving to those in need, like donating to charity or hosting a modest walima for less fortunate people.
- Use this new journey as motivation to enhance your worship, recitation of the Quran, and perform night prayers together, strengthening your spiritual bond.
- If hosting a small reception, ensure entertainment, music, and dress codes align with Islamic teachings and the virtuous atmosphere of Ramadan.
- Avoid spending too much or making things too fancy. Keep decorations simple, expenses reasonable, and the feast modest, in line with Ramadan’s values of simplicity.
Final Words
Marrying during Ramadan is permissible, but it’s essential to remember the significance of this holy month. Keep celebrations simple to maintain the spiritual atmosphere. While intimacy between spouses is allowed after breaking the fast, it’s wise to prioritize worship and self-control during fasting hours.
May our fasting be accepted, and may Allah shower blessings upon us always.